Lois, one of my godchildren, celebrated her second birthday with her cousin, Klein. These two would probably grow up very close as they are born only a couple of weeks apart, and are practically growing side by side. We were happy to be with them as they turned two.
My visit to Chicago was the personal highlight of my trip to the US, mainly because I got to be with family! I requested my boss if I could have a couple of days off and do a side trip after my official duties, and she agreed. Hooray! And my impression of Chicago was, they don’t call it the windy for nothing! It was bitingly cold, the kind that a person who has lived in a tropical country all her life, could feel down to deepest layers of my bones. For someone used to 30-degree Celsius weather, below 10 is not normal. But I loved the feel of the city. It was busy, but not in a frenetic, disorganized way. It was chic, and it was what I have imagined America would be, more so than Washington, DC and Philadelphia were in the limited time I was there.
I was hoping to get a glimpse of snow, but I was not fortunate enough. Hopefully I will experience some on my next trip.
My mama’s sister (4th among the siblings), who is also one of our wedding sponsors, and her family live in the suburbs of Chicago. I also have two cousins there, as well as several nephews (no girls there!). Both of them are married to full blooded Filipinos. In this lifetime, their whole family have gone home to the Philippines complete in 1992 when my grandparents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Since then, it was mostly Tita Demi who has gone home every so often.
I stayed at their house in Skokie, and glad that it was before they sold the house. It’s been on the market for a month now since they decided to move in nearer to my cousins.
Next day, my cousins Craig, his elder son, Christian and Tita Demi, brought me downtown Chicago. The brought me first to the Willis Tower, formerly the Sears Tower, and we went up to the Skydeck, which about 1,500 feet, and the second tallest building in the United States. It has an observatory, and one could go up the extended glass ledge and imagine you are 1,500 feet above the ground with a thin glass supporting you. This almost gave me a heart attack! haha. But as with every experience, I cherish this (with buckling knees), and cross it off my bucket list.
We also stopped by the Millennium Park and the Bean for the touristy pictures.
And my special request for this trip was to see a real Chicago Bulls game, which Craig has indulged me with! Thanks so much cousin! The Bulls won over the Charlotte Hornets. It was exciting to be there! All that energy…It was my bad that I dozed off several times during the because my 2-week jetlag was pulling me down by this time. But I immensely enjoyed it at best.
My last day there was spent at the Chicago Premium Outlet in Aurora. Oohhh if only I had that much money..lol. Just brought some stuff for my family and colleagues at home as pasalubong. Then off we went to celebrate my nephew, Justin’s birthday. We all went bowling and had dinner at a place called Level 257.
My time here was really time well spent. I am very happy to have reconnected with them, especially my cousins and to have met my young nephews. My hope for them is for them to retain their Filipino-ness despite being born and brought up in the States. Someday I wish that they could all visit the Philippines, and see where their grandparents were born and lived.
My twin niece and nephew (through a cousin) were born a week after Maxine, and they celebrated their first birthday yesterday. Twins are fascinating, especially if identical. But as a mom, although I would welcome a blessing like this, I wouldn’t dream of having them haha. I know the first few days, weeks, months and years would be hard. I would lose twice as much sleep, and would probably really turn into a zombie by the time their first birthday rolls around, especially for us who have no househelp. The idea would be fun, though.
Happy birthday Louise and Lucas!
Their party was intimate and not your usual kids’ party fare. It was held in Amici Greenhills, just enough for their close family and friends to gather. They did not have the usual games and shows typically present in a birthday party. But they had a caddy decorating portion for kids, which Ate Mischa definitely enjoyed.
Our second party last weekend took us to the princess-themed celebration of Christelle Brie. There was a also a request to come in in costumes. Mischa and Maxine came in decked as Queen Elsa and a ladybug (which incidentally was Ate‘s attire during her first birthday some five years ago).
Mischa enjoyed the games and the magic show. She also brought home a lot of loot.
This is the family that took me in for a lifetime. We don’t spend as much time with them as with my own since we all live in various parts of the Philippines and even abroad. My parents-in-law are both in Cagayan, as well as two brothers-in-law and their families. The eldest of course is in the United Kingdom, and their coming home was the reason for our big reunion recently. The other brother lives in Caloocan City. Meanwhile, the younger sister, Ate Vivien lives in Fairview, in a subdivision right across Mico’s, so it’s them we see a lot. I would say that our nieces there are the closest cousins Mischa has.
All in all, hubby has two sisters and three brothers. He’s the youngest. Among them, there are 14 grandchildren, and even 1 great-granddaughter now. At the time we took these pictures, the youngest grandchild hasn’t been born yet. There are four grandsons to carry on the Apattad name so there’s little chance we’ll be extinct soon. lol.
I’m not really used to belonging in a family this big, but I love it. Makes me feel secure that Mischa and Maxine has other family they can go to in case we won’t be here. I hope they all grow up close. But I know that we adults have to lay the foundation for them.
So here we are, from eldest to youngest.
My favorite aunt/godmother came home from the US for a very, very brief period together with one of my cousins. They were here to visit another ailing aunt (my cousin’s mom, and the favorite aunt’s and my mom’s youngest sister). I wished they could have stayed longer, especially my aunt. They were here for a total of five days so we had little time to do things. Only had a couple of dinners, visits to the hospital, and made a quick getaway to our home province for the two balikbayans to pay homage to our grandparents. We didn’t even have time to reminisce.
These cutie patooties are sending belated greetings of peace and joy as we welcomed the new year!
They were lucky to spend that turn of the year with both sides of their families–the best of both worlds. New Year’s Eve dinner was with Ninong Mico, Mama and Lolo, while a rainy lunch was spent with Mama Old, Tita Vivien, and a handful of cousins from daddy’s side.
Our families are awesome!