marriages and infidelity

on the heels of the kris aquino supposed scandal…

it’s funny that something as shallow as showbiz gossip made its sneaky way into our online forum. but of course, as kris is a mother and wife, this topic hotly touched the deepest recesses of women in the n@w community. i guess it’s because at one time or another, we have been touched by the evilness of infidelity, whether in our own marriages or of someone else familiar and dear to us. it is one of the touchiest but most real of horrors that a woman, married or in a relationship, fear. i might only be speaking for myself because jealousy is my second name lol. to my own defense, i don’t think it’s insecurity or immaturity on my part rather maybe the sting of being fooled to the highest level has sorely touched and scorched me for life. i know hubby has tried his damnest even before when we were dating to convince me of his love and dedication to me as his wife and as a person. still i admit to regular moments of annoyance when thoughts of deceit or probable closeness to other women come up front. pardon the quirks, i’m only human after all. it’s something i have to work on for life. but i’m learning, alright?

anyway, going back to the kris issue…i feel so strongly about women like the mayen austria being referred to. even if i have friends who are like that (read: angeline jolies, krista ranillos and marian riveras of this world!), i give them a piece of my mind. i just don’t see the point of sniffing around and trying to make your presence felt with guys who are committed, as i said married or in a relationship. it’s just plain wrong. maybe it stems from me being a victim of seemingly innocent get-togethers that eventually led into something big which ended up in a relationship that went kaput after ten years of togetherness (i’ve posted enough literature on this i can write a book :)). then again, whichever way you look at it, nothing just adds up. while it is human nature to be greedy and sheath one’s claws for survival, we still stake our own territory. and once it’s done with the consent of adults, it’s for life. so it still irks me to death whenever i get whiff of girls or women who seduce or use their powers (financial, emotional blackmail, legs, cleavage or whatnots) to lure perfectly committed men who will seem to think that they need these idiots in their lives for an ego boost or something. these women should be hanged upside down lol. some of them make a living out of it, breaking up relationships one after another. they feel a really macabre sense of triumph when they manage to split apart a perfectly fine relationship. hmmmpf.

i don’t very much like kris like when she goes tattling around things about her and her family. we have all sordidly but fascinatingly followed her tumultous affairs. despite best efforts, it’s hard to ignore her when she’s panning for the camera, tears and all, telling the public how a former presidential daughter has acquired a sexually-transmitted disease. but she’s absolutely right this time. in all fairness to her, she’s grown and matured leaps and bounds, maybe because she has to as her husband is eleven years her junior. she had to be the strong, understanding and patient person she’s not used to. there’s nothing wrong with protecting your turf. she realizes that it is her responsibility because she smells something different and fishy with this whole affair. how can we blame her if she feels uncomfortable about women calling her husband? i also like the fact that she doesn’t care much about her image as a public figure so long as she feels it is her right and duty as a wife and mother.

as for james, what the hell. there’s obviously something wrong here if these kinds of problems about womanizing, etc. keeps on cropping up. granting that kris is a very dominating person, he still made him his wife. he shouldn’t keep on entertaining a spark even for a fleeting second which could get into a razing fire. yeah maybe sometimes he feels emasculated considering he should be the man in the house. still, he wanted it in the first place, had wanted the marriage the take place, had consented to it. he chose her with all her antics and craziness. five years ago when they got married, despite all her flaws and her past, james opted to marry her. if he was not ready then, she shouldn’t have tied himself to her, right?

and what’s with dragging noynoy’s name in the issue?

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